Men assume that if they do what turns them on that women will sexually respond the same way. This is WRONG and won’t work. Men and women are different. If you want different outcomes from your love making and hot sex, then you need to learn 3 great secrets!
1st Secret. Men and women have different hormones.
Many books have been written about this subject and many more will be written. A great man said, “if you do what you always do and expect different results, that is the first sign of insanity.”
Men assume that because they have testosterone that if they do what turns them on, it will also turn the woman on. How FALSE this concept is and will always be.
Ask your lady what’s going on today and then just let her talk. Don’t interrupt. Don’t tell her what to do or try to save her. Ask her how you can be there for her.
If you don’t believe this will work…try it tonight. If she faints, get 911 ready!
2nd Secret. Set the stage to be on stage.
After you do what I advise in #1, and it starts to work, like I know it will…start to set the stage. My question is what stage do you want to set: Sex or Love Making?
If you just want sex, then go for it for a few minutes and turn on the ball game. If you really want a sexual holiday and GRAND love making event, then mentally set the stage for this special event.
First, ask her about the time when she was turned on more than ever. Ask her what made her so turned on. Get her to talk about it. Notice how bright her eyes are and her body posture.
Now repeat the scenario as if it were happening there and now with you. Make it real.
You’ll either give her a no-touch orgasm or you’ll turn her into putty and she’ll be so wild in bed that you’ll have to go and buy another one.
3rd Secret. Change her mind and body forever.
Start to love her the way she wants to be loved. Wouldn’t you want that for yourself? Don’t you want someone to understand you and then fulfill your needs.
Once your lady believes that you are going to do this, she will change into the wild tomcat in bed that you’ve always wanted. Her emotions will cause such great heat that you won’t believe she’s the same woman.
She can totally outlast you in bed so you better learn all the secrets to long love making that you can. She’ll outlast you and then you’ll have to catch up to her. What a problem to have!
Now that you’ve learned how to mentally and emotionally turn her into your lover, now you need to learn how to please her physically! Learn all the sexual combinations she loves and you’ll do it!